FAQ

I get asked a lot of questions here, most of them of a sexual nature. I get some of these questions over and over again. So this is here to answer some of your questions before you have to ask them. Please take a look here and see if your question is already answered. If you’ve asked me something and I haven’t responded, maybe take another look through here and see if you missed it.

• Why don’t you do porn?

I guess what it comes down to is that I love sex. I mean, I really love it. That should be pretty obvious. So why don’t I pursue it as a career? It really is because I love to fuck. And the first time I have to fuck someone I don’t like, that robs me of some of my enjoyment. The first time I can’t fuck a particular guy because I have to go and get fucked by someone else, means I’m not really doing what I want. The first time I can’t make plans because I need to go blow some guy, it becomes a job, not something I’m doing for fun. If it becomes a job for me, then it loses its luster. Plus, I really don’t know how I’d do with a crew of people watching, having to stop while they change camera angles, etc. It’s really a business. I can’t say for sure that I wouldn’t enjoy it, but I can say I probably wouldn’t enjoy it as much as fucking around on my own. I have never been paid for having sex (with or without being filmed). I have had offers. I’m not interested in turning something I love so much into a job.

• What are your measurements?

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• How old are you?

Getting to the point where answering this makes me feel old. Let’s just say that I’m of legal age and then some, and if you need to know more specifically, I’ll tell you I was born in the mid-80s.

• Do you have a boyfriend?

I’m listed as “single” on every site that asks for that kind of status. People always ask me “How can you be single?” The answer is “by choice.” But the problem is that the terms are more limited than reality. The truth is that I’m “single” because I’m not looking for any kind of commitment. I want to have fun when, where, how and with who I want. When people ask if I have a boyfriend, I always respond “a few.” Truth is, I don’t have any boyfriends (most of the time). I’ve got guys that I fuck. And at any given time, I’ve got at least two guys that I’m seeing regularly, and several more who I can call if I need to get off. If I need to get laid, I’ll find an available guy within a few phone calls, if not the first.

• What kind of man do you like?

One with a hard cock! OK, a little more serious. Physically, I like strong arms, a firm chest, eyes and lips are also important. A cute butt and, well yeah, a good cock is always a plus! Size is not the main consideration here! There’s too big, and there’s too small, but there’s a wide range in between that is perfectly good for me. If I had to put a number to it (as so many of you boys want me to), I’d say about 7.5″ is just about perfect for me. Personality-wise, he should be funny, aggressive without being a dick. Most important of all, though, is confidence! I cannot stress that enough: confidence!

• Do you like anal sex?

As a general rule, no. I’d much rather have a dick in my pussy than my ass. But I do feed off of the energy that comes from both me and my partner, and as I get hornier, I get more willing to let him. And if he gets really turned on by fucking my ass, then it turns me on more, which helps me enjoy it enough to let him.

• Does size matter?

I already answered this above, but I’ll say it again here for those looking specifically for this. It does not as much as most guys think, but I won’t deny there is something to it. I’m not too picky, though. Anywhere from 5 to 9 inches is fine with me. I’ve got a 10″ dildo which I can’t really take, always with some pain. About 7.5″ is pretty ideal for me,  but as long as you’re not too short or too long, I’ll happily take your cock inside me.

• Have you made any sextapes?

A few guys I’ve been with have wanted to film us, and I don’t mind. So yeah,  I’ve been in a few… 3 or 4 different guys, probably about 6 total times. No, you won’t find these online (as far as I know), and these are things that I probably won’t share.

• What do you do for fun?

In no particular order…. dance, drink, get high, play pool, watch movies, fuck, hang with friends, swim, anything else that sounds like fun.

• What is your favorite sexual position?

If I have to choose 1, I’ll go with doggie style. Primarily because of all the things the guy’s hands can be doing. Holding my hips and pulling me onto him, spanking my ass, pulling my hair, reaching for my dangling tits, reaching around and rubbing my clit! But really, I wouldn’t want to be limited like that. Variety is the spice of life and all that. Can’t go more than 3 times without deliberately changing things up. Usually, it doesn’t get that far. Either we’ll try a different position or sometimes just a different guy will fuck me in the same position but it’s so different!

• Do you ever have cyber sex?

I do engage in cybersex, with just about anyone who interests me. The thing is, though, and what most people don’t get, is that asking me if I want to have cyber sex is not a way to get me to do it. Just like in real life, you can’t just flip a switch and suddenly I want to fuck you. You have to put some effort in and seduce me, tease me, have fun and relax! For some examples, check out some of my cybersex transcripts that I’ve posted here.

• Do you ever have phone sex?

I do have phone sex, but only with people that I know pretty well. I’m very hesitant to put my phone number out there, so I pretty much only do it with people that I actually know. And with them, we’re more likely to just get together and fuck, so phone sex doesn’t happen very often.

• Do you give out pics of yourself?

Short answer: yes.

Long answer: I do send pics, but please don’t ask for one, especially if we’ve barely talked. Unless you’re the kind of guy who walks up to a girl in a store and asks to see her tits, you’ll get why. It’s fucking rude to ask to see a girl’s body if you don’t know her at all. There are plenty of pics of me that are already available for you to look at, some of them quite (or totally) revealing. Just look around this blog and you can find them easily. I only send pics directly to people when we’ve really connected over several chats or you’ve managed to really turn me on. Consider it a kind of reward. And the more you ask for pics, the less likely you are to get one.

• Can we meet in person?

Probably not. Definitely not if I don’t know you well. I used to be okay with meeting people that I know online, and had a few great encounters. But how does that saying go? “One rotten apple spoils the bunch?” I had a bad experience with someone. A really bad experience. So I didn’t meet anyone from the internet for a really long time. I probably never would have again, except that I randomly ran into a guy that I had a pretty good online relationship with. He recognized me and approached me, and that turned out to be a wonderful experience. So I’ve become somewhat more willing, though I’m still very guarded about it. Only a select few will get to meet me in person. And (this is the part that makes me sound like a bitch), I don’t need to meet my internet friends for sex. I’ve got enough people in my life that I actually know who I can fuck when I get horny. I use the internet for the kinds of experiences that I can only get from the internet, and that’s all I’m looking for.

• How do I get in touch with you?

Well, commenting on this blog is a great way, though I ask that you please keep the comments relevant to whatever the original post is about. I now have my very own chatroom on this site that I try to be active in. Down at the bottom of this page, you’ll find a list of links broken up by category. One of those categories is called “Find Me.” You can figure it out from there, I’m sure.