Q&A Schedule Change

There will be no Q&A post this week, as I transition to the new days. Based on the poll I put up last week, I’ll be updating every Saturday and Monday from now on. Sorry to anyone looking forward to a post today. Next one will be up Saturday!

Q&A: Body Transformation

Nobilis Reed asked me: Your lover has the magical ability to transform your body for one night. You can add or subtract body parts, make them bigger or smaller, change the way they work, or transform your entire body. What would be the sexiest thing your lover could do?

I really don’t know how to answer this one. I’m definitely open to suggestions, though. I’m pretty happy with my body as it is (most days), and people are always telling me how sexy I am. But the way this question is worded, it sounds like we’re looking for more than dropping 5 pounds or making my tits a little bigger.

Add or subtract parts? Change how they work? Transform my entire body? I can’t think of what I’d do with all that.

More than any other question so far, I really want to know what you all think! What would you do to me?

Q&A: Reddit

Chad wrote: I’m not sure if you’ve heard of Reddit, or are interested in having thousands of people see your nude body at once, but it could possibly get a shit ton of more people on here, but on reddit gone wild, you could possibly overload the site…

I’ve looked around there a bit, but I don’t know if that’s a route I want to go down. A few years ago, I’d be posting there in a heartbeat. I don’t mind people looking at pics of me (not in the least!), and I’d love to get more people visiting this blog, but I don’t know if that’s how I want to do it.

I’m much more protective of my pics (both nude and clothed, teasing or not) in recent years. I’ve just had too many conversations that go something like this:

Scheduling Question

Right now, my Q&A posts come out every Tuesday and Thursday at 10:30 AM. Does this work for everyone? Is there a better time or day to be posting these when more of you are available? I’m looking for input, and I’m going to start with the days. I’ll only post 2 days a week, but you can choose up to 3 options below.

Q&A: Time Travel

Mischiefm8ker wrote this: If you could travel to any point in time where/when would you go? And what would you do? Would you try to change anything (either in the past or the future)?

This one required a lot of thought. And I’m not going to worry about some of the inherent issues with time travel, like paradox and such.

As far as going back in time… I have two problems with it. One is that I’d have to be able to pass myself off as nobility or other high class status. Lower classes really had a hell of a time. They still do, to some extent, but the difference in even the last 100 years is pretty staggering. My other problem is that my sexually liberated attitude would likely get me stoned or burnt as a witch or instrument of the Devil in many eras. Maybe I’d just be ostracized and cast out. That doesn’t sound fun, either. So really, and time and place I can think of that sounds good, really doesn’t appeal once I start considering the reality of living at that point. The only way I’d go back in time, would be if I thought I could do some good in preventing this negative attitude towards casual sex that’s still only just starting to get better. I don’t know when or where that would be, but if I ever figure that out, then that’s my answer.

Now, looking to the future… I wouldn’t want to go 20 or 30 years in the future to see what happens to me. I don’t want to know. That’s the point of living. I also can’t see a whole lot of change in that timeframe. There will definitely be some, and some of that might be pretty extraordinary, but it will still mostly be this world that I already know. Now, jumping 100 years or more into the future… That’s full of potential! I’d love to experience space travel and see other worlds! I could be a Star Slut! There’s so much potential in the future, things that we can’t even think of. 20 years ago, who’d have guessed at everything our phones would be doing? Who would’ve conceived of video games in the 60’s? Air travel in 1900? What will exist in 20 years? 50? 100? Will we kill off the human race by then, or will we have figured out solutions to our problems and thrived?

I’m an optimist… and thinking of the future tickles my imagination!

I’d love to hear some of your thoughts on this question! Past or future, and why (and when and where)?

Q&A: My Harem

Anonymous asked: How many guys do you have on the side for a booty call? What makes you keep him/them around?

This is something that’s in constant flux. I’d say that, on average, I’ve probably got about 3 guys that I know I can call on and that have proven themselves worth calling on. Realistically, I know that there are many others who’d be willing to fuck me if I gave them the chance, but I’m actually not quite as loose as I sometimes make myself out to be. I won’t fuck just anyone.

To be on the short list, there are a couple of things that need to be true. (These are in no particular order.) I have to like you. I have to enjoy time spent with you (in or out of clothes). You have to be attractive to me. You need to be a good lover. You need to accept that I am in no way “yours,” and that I will be seeing other people. You need to be creative and willing to explore and play when it comes to sex. You have to be honest about your “relationship status.” You need to not be married. (Marriage is meaningless for me, but I do respect when people make that commitment to each other.) It’s not a requirement, but it helps if you’re flexible enough to make that booty call whenever I ask.

In short, the more interesting you’re able to make my (sex) life, the more I’ll call on you to do so.

Q&A: Mirrored Masturbation

Someone from Formspring asked: Have you ever watched yourself masturbate in the mirror?

I have, but it’s not something I really do anymore.

I was in my late teens, as I was discovering my sexuality and realizing how much I enjoy it and that it wasn’t something I really wanted to limit. I lied about my age and joined adultfriendfinder.com and was exploring things there (discovering my love for cybersex), and I started to receive requests for guys to watch me on a webcam. Now, I’ve never had a webcam on my computer, so I’ve never done it, but initially, the idea intrigued me.

I talked with a few of my girl friends and asked guys online if that’s something that guys really want to see. I understood watching porn. That’s an actual act of sex, and it’s very nice to imagine yourself in one of the roles you see on the screen. But masturbation is not interactive. This is why I don’t enjoy watching (and many, many guys have offered to let me watch as they jerk off). I just get frustrated if a guy’s beating off and I can’t jump in and help out. I can watch for a bit, but eventually, I want to join!