i started on adultfriendfinder.com when i was 16 or 17. yes, i lied about my age to sign up. i did it mostly because i was curious. it was a while before i met anyone from there. when i did, it was fine, a good experience. by then i was already pretty sexually free. i think i fucked only about 3 guys through there. number 3 or 4 turned out to be my stalker. and that’s why i stopped meeting people from online, but i still used the sites for cybersex and flirting and other online fun.
i didn’t really do anything special with guys from those sites that i didn’t do with other lovers.
i stopped using those sites (though i still have accounts on several) when i realized that i didn’t need them anymore. at this point, i’ve built up enough of a fan base that people continue to find me through various social media outlets. i don’t need anything specifically sex-based, or that people need to pay for. i’m more available, the people that i really enjoyed interacting with have followed me, and i still get new followers to flirt with and have fun with. so, basically, i stopped using them because i don’t need them.